875 – Dont Forget Your Father – R Duvi Bensoussan

Core Message: Never Forget Your Father Above

This moving story reminds us that no Jew is ever truly alone. Even when an earthly father is lost, our Father in Heaven remains close, waiting for us to remember Him. Through Emunah and Bitachon, we learn that Hashem walks beside us every moment. Sometimes all it takes is one encounter to awaken that truth. This powerful message of Jews Inspiration is brought to you by Storiestoinspire.org, dedicated to sharing Stories to Inspire, Inspirational Jewish stories, Torah wisdom stories, and meaningful moral stories that strengthen our faith.

A Long Line Before the High Holidays

It was just before the High Holidays, that sacred time when hearts begin to soften and souls prepare for reflection. I was standing in a long line at a small grocery store near my home. The line moved slowly, one customer at a time inching forward toward the register.

In front of me stood a teenage boy. He did not appear particularly religious. His basket was full, and he seemed lost in his own world. As I waited behind him, I wondered why Hashem had placed me in this unusually long line.

Usually, the store moved quickly. That day, however, it felt as though time had been deliberately slowed.

Perhaps, I thought, this was not random. Maybe I was meant to speak to this young man. Maybe a short conversation could plant a seed. Before the Yamim Noraim, perhaps I could invite him to learn, to experience a Shabbat, to reconnect in some small way.

But how do you begin such a conversation without pushing someone away?

I studied him gently, searching for a bridge. Then I saw it.

On his left arm, Hebrew letters were tattooed vertically from shoulder to forearm.

There it was. My opening.

The Tattoo That Spoke of Longing

I leaned slightly toward him and smiled. “That is a beautiful tattoo,” I said. “I have never seen one in Hebrew before. What does it say?”

His face lit up. He seemed proud. He placed his basket down and stretched out his arm for me to see clearly.

In that moment, I assumed it might be something spiritual. Perhaps Shema Yisrael. Perhaps a verse. Something symbolic.

I looked down and read the words.

In a million years, I would not have guessed what they said.

It read: Im Eshkachech Abba, Lo Eshkachecha.

If I forget you, Father, may I be forgotten.

I looked up slowly. “You are an orphan?” I asked gently.

He nodded. “Yes.”

“When did your father pass away?”

“Just a few days after my bar mitzvah,” he said quietly.

He continued, his voice steady but heavy. “The last time I saw my father, he was in a hospital bed. He knew he would not make it. He told me, ‘You are becoming bar mitzvah in a few days. I want you to put on your tefillin every single day and think of Abba.’”

The boy swallowed hard.

“Those were the last words he ever said to me.”

He paused, then added, “Since then, every single day, I put on tefillin. And when I wrap the strap around my arm, I look at these words. Im Eshkachech Abba. I will not forget you, Abba.”

His eyes filled with tears.

Mine did too.

In the middle of a grocery store, before Rosh Hashanah, two strangers stood crying together. I wrapped my arms around him. He had lost his father, yet he refused to let the memory fade.

Remembering Our Father in Heaven

As I walked home that day, I could not stop thinking about that young man.

Here was a child who had lost his earthly father, yet every morning he bound himself in tefillin and whispered remembrance. He refused to forget.

And then a thought pierced my heart.

We all have a Father.

Not one who passed away. Not one who is distant. But a Father who stands before us every moment of every day.

How often do we forget Him?

We rush from place to place. We scroll, we plan, we worry, we chase. We are distracted by noise and urgency. And all the while, our Father in Heaven whispers, “Everything you have is from Me. Do not forget Me.”

Before the High Holidays, we are given a gift. Shabbat. Yom Kippur. Moments that invite us to pause. To breathe. To say, “Abba, thank You. I love You. I see You.”

But the Torah wisdom stories teach us something even deeper. We do not have to wait for Yom Kippur to return. The Zohar explains that teshuvah from love can happen in a single instant. One sincere moment of connection can transform everything.

Close your eyes for sixty seconds. Block out the noise. Say quietly, “Hashem, I love You. Thank You for everything. I know You are here.”

That is Emunah.

That is Bitachon.

To walk through life with the awareness of Shivisi Hashem lenegdi tamid, placing Hashem before us always.

The young man in the grocery store taught me a lesson I will never forget. He etched remembrance onto his skin so he would never forget his father.

We do not need tattoos.

We need awareness.

These Inspirational Jewish stories are not simply emotional encounters. They are mirrors. They ask us who we are and who we want to become. They remind us that Jews Inspiration is not about dramatic miracles alone. Sometimes it is about quiet loyalty. Daily tefillin. A whispered thank You. A moment of presence.

As we approach sacred days, may we strengthen our connection to our Father Above. May we never forget the One who never forgets us.

Im Eshkachech Abba.

We will not forget You.

And in that remembrance lies redemption, closeness, and the deepest peace of all.

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